How to Propose a Girl

1.Prepare your request

STEP 1.

Start by being his friend. If you want to offer him to go out with you, he will first have to get to know her. You do not have to be your best friend and it's better to avoid getting into the Friendship Zone, but it's a good idea to get to know her a little in order to be in her field of vision. and that she considers you a nice boy. If she does not even know that you exist or that the only information she has about you comes from gossip and guesswork, she probably will not go out with you.
Be friendly. Greet her and call her by her first name to show her that you are thinking of her.
Make an effort when you are in a group. Ask him how his day went or give him a little compliment.
Be considerate Make a sign when she walks past you in the hallways or sits behind you in class.
Keep in mind that you do not need to rush her to get her attention. Besides, she will notice you even more if you play the hard-to-reach boy.

STEP.2

Flirt a little with her. If you want to go out with her, you will have to create an alchemy between you. You need to flirt with her a bit to see if you can joke together and make a connection. You can compliment her outfit, flirt her a bit (if she is not too shy) or just joke with her to show him that you like him.
When you are in a group, be attentive, but do not monopolize it. Rather than accustoming her to come to her, make her want to flirt with you.

STEP.3

See if you like him. Although there is no way to know if she really appreciates you before she offers to go out with you, there are signs that will show you that she has spotted you. Knowing that she feels something for you will increase your self-confidence when you ask her to go out with you. Here are some signs that will show you that she really appreciates you.
She ignores you completely or, on the contrary, gives you her full attention when you are in a group.
She smiles or blushes when your eyes meet.
His friends whisper or giggle when you go to their side.
You just feel an alchemy when you talk together.
A third person carries you on the fact that you appreciate yourself.
She seems to be looking for excuses to talk to you.
Pay attention to the number of times she touches you and see if she finds absurd excuses. If she touches you once or twice that does not mean she appreciates you.

STEP.4

Choose the right time and the right place to apply. To ask him to go out with you, you do not need to choose the best time and the best place, but seizing a good opportunity can increase your chances. If she actually wants to go out with you, she'll tell you yes, even in less advantageous circumstances, but you can increase your chances by choosing a pretty private place so she does not feel uncomfortable and choosing a time when she is in a good mood and can not be distracted or stressed.
You do not have to wait very long for the perfect opportunity to present itself. Girls in college are unpredictable, so if you feel a good opportunity, grab it instead of waiting for the perfect time.

STEP.5

Think of something you can do together. When you propose to go out with you, you will most certainly need an idea of ​​what you could do together! This may seem obvious to you, but you may be so worried about his response or how you will ask him that you did not wonder what would happen after this famous proposal. While some boys in the school are suggesting that girls go out with them just to be a boyfriend / girlfriend, it's more fun to think about what you can do together. So when she says yes, you can answer "super! Would you like to ... "instead of" super! Uh ... uh ... see you later. Here are some ideas for activities to offer.
Go to the college ball that will take place soon
Go see a movie that has just been released
Go to a concert
Go to the mall together
The escort her home after class
Go to a birthday together

Part.2
Ask him to go out with you

STEP.1

Privilege intimacy. Be isolated enough to keep her friends from giggling and teasing you, but not too much so she does not feel scared or vulnerable. For example, choose to make your request near lockers after classes, at a party or even after the college ball. Try not to offer him before class because she will be distracted by what she will have to doarea that day. Do not offer him before a very important assignment either.
Choose a time when she is not stressed or sad and watch her to see if she is in a good mood when you approach her.

STEP.2

Look confident. Trust does half the work, but look a little nervous to show that you like it. Although being confident will not help you much if she is just not interested, this will help you to apply in good conditions if she is. Just keep your head up, smile, think about breathing and relax. Even if you sweat a lot or feel your stomach knot, you need to act as if you were comfortable talking to it - and soon you'll see you believe it yourself!
You do not have to look arrogant. Act as if you were aware of being nice and a girl would be lucky to spend time with you. Make sure you do not look too different in comparison to your usual behavior.

STEP.3

Start with some banalities. You probably do not want to say "hi! Do you want to go out with me ? That would be too abrupt, even for the most direct girl that exists. Although you do not wish to procrastinate, take a few minutes to make everyone feel at ease: for you to be ready to offer to go out with you and for her to be ready to answer your questions. Just greet her, ask her how she's doing, and think about one or two topics of conversation to discuss before the fateful moment.
If it becomes obvious that you are going to propose to go out with you, that you fix the ground and kick in imaginary dust balls, it's time to spit the piece.

STEP.4

Make your request. It does not have to be very elaborate. Just say, "I love spending time with you. Would you like us to go out together? Or, "How would you like to be my girlfriend? Be simple and adorable and watch her face to decipher what she feels. You do not have to tell her why you love her or convince her that you would be the boyfriend of the year. Just start with one or two sentences that will help you to come out with you. After that, you can only wait for his answer.
Look it in your eyes when you make your request, rather than look elsewhere or fix the floor. She will be impressed with your confidence in you.

STEP.5

React properly. After asking her to go out with you, she will have some other options that yes or no. So, if she says yes, embrace her, smile and make her understand that you're happy to go out with her, without making a dance of joy. Show him that you are enthusiastic and that you see her as a nice girl. Now take the lead and suggest the projects you have in mind - and the rest is history!
If she does not want to go out with you, do not despair. Thank her for talking with you and making a dignified exit. Do not be mean to her, do not kick into your locker and do not retire with a beaten dog look. Do not forget that you want her to have a good image of you, even if she does not want to be your girlfriend. And do not forget: one of lost, ten found, especially in college!

Part3
Other ways to suggest that you go out with her

STEP.1
Suggest that you go out with you at the college ball. The ball is an excellent place to invite you to go out with you. Wait a slow, offer to dance and propose to become your girlfriend at the end of the song. When you dance, you will see in his eyes if you have a chance or not. Beforehand, you can also use this dance as an excuse to invite him out with you. Although this is more daring and exerting some pressure, it gives you an excellent excuse to make your proposal!
The atmosphere at the ball will be undeniably more romantic than at the cafeteria during lunch, so if you make your request at the ball, it is more likely that she has a romance in mind. Disadvantage: it will be almost impossible to steal from friends.
STEP.2
Write him a word. If you think you are a Casanova when it's time to write, write him a cute little word that will show him that you like him and want him to become your girlfriend. It's a nice way to surprise her and eliminate the pressure of a real conversation, but be sure she gets your note, that you give it in class or slip it into her textbook or locker .
Tell him to send you a note to answer you. Whatever happens, do not be nerwant, because she will not be here to see your reaction!
STEP.3
Have your friends talk to her. This must be a last resort. If you are too shy, still want to offer to go out with you and have one or two good friends with enough charisma to talk to him (without the charm, of course), one of them could ask him if she would agree to go out with you. Be certain that they know what to say and do not make you look like a coward or distort your intentions.
If you really want a trusted friend to have this girl go out with you, you will have to repeat together what he says. Of course, this will seem ridiculous, but you will not regret having prepared your friend for the big moment!
STEP.4
Call her. You can choose to call if you are more comfortable on the phone. Call her (thankfully, you already have her phone number) and offer to go out with you. For that, it is particularly important to think of an activity that you could do together, so that you do not just offer to go out with you before clinging awkwardly. You can also get her phone number by asking one of her friends, but after that she will probably know what to expect when you call her.
STEP.5
Give him a small gift. If you are already friends or if you know each other well enough and you have an idea of ​​what she might like, you can offer her an affordable gem, a CD, a book, a notebook or something she could love without spoiling her or making her uncomfortable. You can make your request by offering the gift or prepare a small note to present with to reduce the pressure.
STEP.6
Write it in chalk. It requires a lot of courage. If you really like it, write "do you want to go out with me (his name)?" "With chalk outside and take her out for a walk with you to chat. Yes, it's a bit embarrassing if she refuses, but imagine how adorable it would be if she answered yes to your message!
STEP.7
Offer him with food. Find out what is his favorite cake or dessert and write to him "Do you want to go out with me? Using a glaze. It may sound silly, but if you succeed it will be impressed by your attention and your creativity and will not be able to resist you. Try not to shake while writing the message and everything will be fine!

Some Very Useful Advice

.Do not be clingy! It annoys girls and scares them!
.Even if it may seem difficult, do not fix his body! She will think you are a pervert.
Do not act like a fool if she tells you no.
Do not brag or she will think you are egocentric.
Be polite, do not swear and do not be rude.
Do not offer a 5th grade student to go out with you if you are in 3rd grade. Everyone will think you are weird.
Seriously, do not reject your request. There is nothing worse than not knowing if a girl you like appreciates you. It's even better to know that she does not appreciate you.
Do not offer to go out with you via internet or SMS. This creates a very uncertain relationship that will not last long.
Be certain that she knows you and do not tell anyone about your intentions before inviting her to go out with you. If you talk to a friend, be sure he is a trusted person and in the worst case make him sing.
Do not send a friend to ask for you.
Do not think that being tacky is touching. It can mean she is desperate. Moreover, do not make your request without perceiving signals. It may sound cruel, but make her see you flirt with another girl. Watch her: if she's jealous it's a good sign.
warnings
Do not denigrate yourself or she will feel uncomfortable and will probably say no. Trust yourself when you talk with her.
Do not forget that she may like you too. It's always worth it.
If she says yes, do not kiss her right away. It might seem odd to him.
Do not cry if she says no, say something like "it was worth trying, if you change your mind tell me."
If she says no, do not forget that you will meet many other girls during your high school years.
If you spend too much time around it, you will feel weird and will reduce your chances of getting a positive response to your proposal. Spend more time with your friends and family.
In any case, do not ask him in writing. This gives a bad image and could ruin your chances of getting a positive response. Talking to him face to face shows him that it is important to you and that you are not joking.